In a poly-ish marriage, in the lifestyle for over a decade. My favorite things to do are giving hard bare butt spankings to women, and being sucked off by women. Preferably I can spank her both before and while she blows me. My wife often helps with giving the spankings. A while back, she recruited a woman friend to suck me off while she watched. We have various paddles, canes, floggers, belts, and a carpet beater. Any women in Oregon who enjoy being spanked are welcome to have play sessions with us, especially if they enjoy giving blowjobs. Ladies, did I mention that I want to cum in your mouth?
Some folks here in Oregon have a hard time recognizing that I'm black. That's partly because, according to DNA tests, I am about one -third white. But having grown up in the Chicago hood, I still retain a strong sense of who I am. The three phrases I love to hear a woman tell me are: "Please spank me hard;" " Please let me suck you; " and "please cum in my mouth." If saying please would be a deal breaker, you could drop it, as long as we follow through with actions.